My wife was very thin when we met. 5’3 120lbs. She has muscle on her and great curves but basically zero padding haha. Fast forward nearly 3 years and we have a one year old and she’s gained about 30lbs. All during her pregnancy I was encouraging her to eat and let me take care of her. She did well but after just didn’t stick with eating well and wasn’t happy with her belly.
I let things sit and just helped with raising our daughter for the last year but in the past few weeks her milk production had been falling off and stressing her out. So with some coaxing she let me start helping her by basically taking control of her diet. We started off with an 8oz shake that’s made from heavy cream, chia seeds, yogurt and a bunch of other things to help replenish her after the first pump. It adds roughly 1000 calories to her daily intake right off the bat in the morning.
Starting that a few weeks back I’ve been slowly increasing meal sizes for her and giving piles of positive reinforcement and praise when she eats till she’s full. She’s been doing AMAZING! It’s really surprising to see how much more she can eat in a day even compared to a week ago. She’s consistently finishing over 4000 calories a day now and when we started off she was at less than half that.
Left to her own devices she basically just forgets to eat or eats very little. But with my support she’s been thriving and also seems genuinely happy to get the praise I’ve been gibing. I don’t want to make things weird, this kink isn’t really something she understands but she’s still taking to it well.
I can clearly see her getting softer all over and although it’s best to keep her off the scale bc she doesn’t like the numbers my guess is she’s gained 5-7lbs in the last two weeks alone! And for the past few days she’s mentioned a few times that she’s so full after a meal and never felt so stuffed. It wasn’t me forcing her, it was simply my praise and support and she just kept eating.
I know things are different for her, she’s mentioned her belly feeling weird and she also has told me that she’s had to use the bathroom more and she never told me anything about that before lol. It’s quite interesting to watch as she experiences things like waking up over heated at night or patting her belly when she feels it digesting.
Again she’s not really a feedee but she’s amazing and I’m loving being able to help and support her with all the eating she’s been doing!
I let things sit and just helped with raising our daughter for the last year but in the past few weeks her milk production had been falling off and stressing her out. So with some coaxing she let me start helping her by basically taking control of her diet. We started off with an 8oz shake that’s made from heavy cream, chia seeds, yogurt and a bunch of other things to help replenish her after the first pump. It adds roughly 1000 calories to her daily intake right off the bat in the morning.
Starting that a few weeks back I’ve been slowly increasing meal sizes for her and giving piles of positive reinforcement and praise when she eats till she’s full. She’s been doing AMAZING! It’s really surprising to see how much more she can eat in a day even compared to a week ago. She’s consistently finishing over 4000 calories a day now and when we started off she was at less than half that.
Left to her own devices she basically just forgets to eat or eats very little. But with my support she’s been thriving and also seems genuinely happy to get the praise I’ve been gibing. I don’t want to make things weird, this kink isn’t really something she understands but she’s still taking to it well.
I can clearly see her getting softer all over and although it’s best to keep her off the scale bc she doesn’t like the numbers my guess is she’s gained 5-7lbs in the last two weeks alone! And for the past few days she’s mentioned a few times that she’s so full after a meal and never felt so stuffed. It wasn’t me forcing her, it was simply my praise and support and she just kept eating.
I know things are different for her, she’s mentioned her belly feeling weird and she also has told me that she’s had to use the bathroom more and she never told me anything about that before lol. It’s quite interesting to watch as she experiences things like waking up over heated at night or patting her belly when she feels it digesting.
Again she’s not really a feedee but she’s amazing and I’m loving being able to help and support her with all the eating she’s been doing!
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